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Social media has turned dating upside-down and confused our poor ape-brains as never before. It’s essential to understand the state of the game here and to maintain objectivity, otherwise you will be doomed to a miserable dating life.

The first thing to observe is that online dating give you the perception that you have infinite options. Whereas fifty years ago your pool of options might have been a handful of women if you were in a small town or village, and perhaps hundreds of women if you were a city socialite – social media now gives us access to millions of people. You can literally view the profiles of and send messages to millions of single females.

However does this improve your chances? Probably not at all – and here’s why. Let’s get right to the main premise of this piece: Accessibility and genuine options are not the same thing. Put another way: If your actual chances of success with something are zero, it is not worth doing, no matter how much hope you have that it will work out.

The next thing to observe is that your options also have millions of options – many of whom inevitably (sorry) have a Sexual Marketplace Value (SMV) above yours.

In other words, whatever your gender and orientation, your target is probably holding out for someone hotter than you; someone that the online dating smorgasbord has fooled them into thinking feel they have a chance with.

As a result, most conversations go nowhere. Most of the messages that people receive are from people that they do not perceive to be hot enough to be worth their time.

The other aspect of this is that women get tons of attention on social media and dating platforms. You will surely have noticed that on Instagram, the vast majority of females get 10x to 1000x the amount of likes and comments that males get. It need hardly be said that this is entirely based on looks. This thirstiness and giving of immediate IOIs lowers your value.

Ever wonder why Tinder isn’t working for you? A study of Tinder has also found that a man of “average” attractiveness will be “liked” by only 1 in 115 women. It turns out that the 80:20 rule applies here – with 78% of women competing for the top 20% of men and the other 80% of men competing for the bottom 22% of women.

This causes two things to happen.

1) As a male, your value goes down. You are very, very replaceable. If she is attractive, she has a thousand options. She doesn’t even have to be nice to you. She doesn’t have to display any virtues or qualities whatsoever. She can create a super lazy profile saying “just ask” and will STILL get 1,000 messages. Her sense of entitlement and worth go through the roof.

However this causes problems. This sense of entitlement, combined with women’s natural hypergamous nature (their willingness to “trade up” if something better comes along) means that they are essentially holding out for the “super hot guy” who they think they are worth, yet who has so many options that he regards them as disposable too!

Society too has told them that they are worth this – and the social media attention confirms the entitlement – even if they are average looking.

Trust me, with online dating they are only interested in looks. Why do you think that Tinder is so popular with women? It enables them to filter through men really fast by looks, instantly eliminating all but “the hot guys”.

Long and short of it, it works for almost nobody, except the top few percent of good looking guys, who are bombarded with messages and have their pick of the females.

Remember that it is an artificial world. Women who will not give you the time of day on social media (because their “I can do better” online mindset has kicked in) will be far more receptive in the real world, where you can also demonstrate personality and nuance in a way that is all but impossible on a dating website.

Remember also that, in the words of Pimp Rosebudd “She knows nothing about your style until you bring it to her ass”. Don’t assume that she can see your personality online. She probably can’t. She doesn’t “get” you and doesn’t care. She is only thinking one thing “Is he hot enough?” They have been spoon fed fantasies of Christian Grey (50 Shades Of Grey), together with various other Hollywood nonsense – and she wants to snag a celebrity – hot, rich, well hung. The fact that these men are very few and far between is neither here nor there. She has made up her mind that she is good enough and so she will likely brush aside even above average contenders.

You can be awesome and still crash and burn over and over again online…

There are three things to do here and one thing not to do:

1) Improve your look as much as you can. Work out. Looksmax. Make more of an effort to dress well. Study our Looksmaxing Tutorial!
2) Improve your game.
3) Go out and meet women in the real world. Not only will this be better for your game (and your posture!) than hiding behind a keyboard, but you will have better chances. Do not spend your life sitting in a chair staring at a screen. Trust me, it is a killer.
4) Do NOT give money to women online. Do NOT give money to their Patreon for the “privilege” of getting a thank you from them. It’s horrific. Man the fuck up and do not succumb to this nonsense of giving gifts to someone you are not in an actual relationship with and who is giving gifts to you.



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