“Treat Me Like A Princess”

Here’s a random dating profile thumbnail that prompted a train of thought before I even clicked it.

I didn’t even click it!

First of all, she has NO idea how I treat princesses and it might be a bit different to what she is shopping for 😉 Or maybe there is another side to her that craves that too…….. maybe she has it all within her and it’s up to you to coax out of her… if you can? Do you have the skill?

Let’s unpack this. She’s testing for betas / simps – right off the bat. That’s the most important question in her mind! Front and center! She’s a strong independent woman (or likes to think she is, because that’s what’s fashionable these days, certainly not being a housewife, oh no!) So it goes like this: She is putting out the feelers to see if you lead with your wallet – or if you have the skill to take the lead, win her over and turn her into the other creature she has within her. The one you want.

Lead with your wallet and she will allow you to entertain her. So long as she’s in charge, so long as the wallet stays open, so long as you don’t “pressure her”, and so long as someone richer OR hotter OR both doesn’t come along, at which point she will either ghost or “my mum just came into town unannounced” or some shit.

But what she REALLY wants… is Mr. Exciting.

She wants to be treated like a princess – by the peasants, AND by the eligible Handsome Prince… AND perhaps, secretly… by the mysterious Dark Knight.

Just don’t approach her like a peasant hoping for a “crumb from her table”.

It’s despicable, really, that any man would do that – would disgrace himself enough to pick up what she is putting down here, in other words she puts out the leash and says “here little doggie” and you go up with waggy tail and do what she tells you. Don’t do it!! But presumably tons of guys do, because this shit is all over the internet. Notably of course on “simp sites” like the dating site I pulled this random example from.

The Handsome Prince, on the other hand… will go up to her and go “Interesting leash. I have this amazing trick I can do with that leash, want to see it? Here, give that to me.” And then clip it onto her – somewhere, wherever – and say “What are you doing? Are you trying to come home with me? We’ve only just met.” And then drop the leash back in her hand with a wink.

etc. etc. etc. Or whatever. The point is, he takes the lead, plays, lights her up, turns her on and sweeps her up into his awesome world…

If you are mug enough to pay her bills and fund her “lifestyle”, then she’ll let you. All the way up to your limit.

But will you get a BJ out of it? Probably not. But if you do, it will only be as good as it needs to be.

You cool with that? Really?

She’s already categorized you. If you are a “good looking beta”, who does have interest from other girls and therefore a risk of straying, then she may give you more and better BJs than the other girls give – just enough in quantity and quality – to keep you “in the pocket”. But you are being played. Learn to tell when it’s real and don’t fall into her frame.

Remember this: Her fantasy is NOT that “some guy” will treat her like a princess, it’s that the hot guy will treat her like a princess. The peasants are boring, but useful to her. That is all.

Did you note the logical flaw in all this? Think about it. Why is the hot guy going to treat her (or anyone) better than he needs to? Why would he run around after her when hotter girls would fuck him without him having to. This is the part you need to understand. Being hot takes focused time management and self discipline towards YOUR goals, not hers!

If you are really hot / desirable / non-betafied, then she will make herself available to you without any of these absurd “hoops to jump through” and without you actually treating her like a “princess” at all.

She’s just a woman.

So how about you decide how you are going to treat her – which should be authentic to your true desires. You OFFER THAT.

Her only decision is whether she is down or not. That’s it.


Her profile text. 19yo, solid 9+.

And the chat:

And another one bites the dust! 🙂

You see? I ignored her frame 100% and came in with my own authentic vibe. Instantly turned her on.

And then you just naturally lead. If she wants to come with you (in both senses of the word), she will. 🙂 If she “falls off”… let her go, DON’T CHASE, learn, improve… and then go find another one!

If she’s down, she will pop up and be amenable to situations / steer you towards situations where it’s “just the two of you”, without any necessity of some expensive venue where she can pose for Insta selfies (don’t you just hate that shit? She’s flexing on her GFs, that’s all it is!)

Do you really think she gives a damn about expensive surroundings when sex is the #1 thing on her mind?

Well, do you? No. You’d be just as happy in the back of a Toyota Corolla, what matters is how hot she is and the chemistry between you.

And it’s the same for her. This shit isn’t really that hard to figure out in the end. Never lead with your wallet, because if she isn’t already impressed before the wallet came open, she sure isn’t suddenly going to get moist for you when it does. Turn her on first, reward her for being a good girl later in the manner you wish to. You’re the candyman and her reward is more of you.

Want to date me? There are criteria! If all you are getting is the ‘simp roadblock’ type crap, with “requirements” and various criteria of any kind in order to get to first base… she doesn’t see you as hot. Face it, you probably are not hot. 🙂 You could become hot, though. It’s a lot of work but worth every minute. Your #1 goal in life is therefore to GET HOTTER. It’s far better to put yourself on the pedestal in life, not girls. Become the God. Not in a delusional way. But in the way of the man who diligently crafts himself into someone he is proud to be. Then you get girls as a by-product of that success. That is the way!

Put your credit card back in your pocket. You earned that money for YOU. It’s yours. Now get off the internet and your ass down the gym!

So that first girl, the pic at the top of this post. I haven’t even looked at her profile. How the heck did I glean all this info just from a selfie and a headline?

Years of situations with women and years of studying male-female dynamics. You need to get this good at reading situations and people, so that you don’t get burnt.

You will get there.

You can also see that even on “simp websites”, you can still pull. If you’ve got the game. And they are full of hotties, actually. She will make exceptions to her little “rules” for the hot guy, no matter what platform he pops up on. He always gets pole position. And the rest is all a massive shit test. There are no rules except the ones you lay down – and if she isn’t down with the masterplan then you are the one that does the rejecting.

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